LOSING MY WIDOW VIRGINITY!
“It didn’t take us long to move our conversations from eharmony messages to personal texts. Doing so made me feel ‘normal,’ and I think the shift to something more personal made the whole thing more comfortable for me. During the days leading up to our first date, I questioned everything, the heaviest thing on my mind being, ‘what would Dave think?’ Yes, he gave me his blessing to find someone after his passing, but in some ways it didn’t feel right.
I also thought about sex.
The thought of being with another man other than my husband was so intimidating. You know as well as I, when we’re young and frisky, we explore our emotions and feelings through physical touch—and, touch is my love language. I knew at some point I’d lose my widow virginity, but honestly? I was scared witless . .
Intrigued, too.”
When Patti Theil lost her husband in 2022, the void was unimaginable—one which she wondered if she could ever overcome. Though life dealt her a major blow, she chose to rise above the pain and heartache to discover the new woman she knew she must become—and, she chose a ‘new tomorrow.’ Working to help others wade through the muck of grief and sadness, Theil counsels those in need. The one thing she learned through the grief process? Doing more than treading water takes guts, laughter, and humor. Losing My Widow Virginity will make you laugh and cry, comforting all who choose to move on with courage and the knowledge of their own new tomorrow.
“It didn’t take us long to move our conversations from eharmony messages to personal texts. Doing so made me feel ‘normal,’ and I think the shift to something more personal made the whole thing more comfortable for me. During the days leading up to our first date, I questioned everything, the heaviest thing on my mind being, ‘what would Dave think?’ Yes, he gave me his blessing to find someone after his passing, but in some ways it didn’t feel right.
I also thought about sex.
The thought of being with another man other than my husband was so intimidating. You know as well as I, when we’re young and frisky, we explore our emotions and feelings through physical touch—and, touch is my love language. I knew at some point I’d lose my widow virginity, but honestly? I was scared witless . .
Intrigued, too.”
When Patti Theil lost her husband in 2022, the void was unimaginable—one which she wondered if she could ever overcome. Though life dealt her a major blow, she chose to rise above the pain and heartache to discover the new woman she knew she must become—and, she chose a ‘new tomorrow.’ Working to help others wade through the muck of grief and sadness, Theil counsels those in need. The one thing she learned through the grief process? Doing more than treading water takes guts, laughter, and humor. Losing My Widow Virginity will make you laugh and cry, comforting all who choose to move on with courage and the knowledge of their own new tomorrow.
“It didn’t take us long to move our conversations from eharmony messages to personal texts. Doing so made me feel ‘normal,’ and I think the shift to something more personal made the whole thing more comfortable for me. During the days leading up to our first date, I questioned everything, the heaviest thing on my mind being, ‘what would Dave think?’ Yes, he gave me his blessing to find someone after his passing, but in some ways it didn’t feel right.
I also thought about sex.
The thought of being with another man other than my husband was so intimidating. You know as well as I, when we’re young and frisky, we explore our emotions and feelings through physical touch—and, touch is my love language. I knew at some point I’d lose my widow virginity, but honestly? I was scared witless . .
Intrigued, too.”
When Patti Theil lost her husband in 2022, the void was unimaginable—one which she wondered if she could ever overcome. Though life dealt her a major blow, she chose to rise above the pain and heartache to discover the new woman she knew she must become—and, she chose a ‘new tomorrow.’ Working to help others wade through the muck of grief and sadness, Theil counsels those in need. The one thing she learned through the grief process? Doing more than treading water takes guts, laughter, and humor. Losing My Widow Virginity will make you laugh and cry, comforting all who choose to move on with courage and the knowledge of their own new tomorrow.